I have registered the domain name, mysiteguy, and have space on a private server that is supposed to be secure, unlike the Zetaboard server.Rather, I'm stating that rather using this forum solely as a sounding board for your anger, which will not solve anything, use the expertise here to seek a solution.
There are people who can help, myself included.
Scrapping your forums and placing them into a database you own is doable, though it will take some work.
Then it's just a matter of importing those into a forum, such as the free phpBB software.
So now I need the phpBB software.
And thank you in advance.